The Overly Flirty Friend
Mon. 01.05.04 - 3:12 p.m.

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umm.. so like, weirdest thing. Lately, a friend of mine has been actin strange, if you know what i mean.

The thing that annoys me though, is how we'll be talking about something.. then out of the blue, he'll throw in a comment that i'm pretty sure has a sexual connotation, but in an effort to not sound too full of myself i end up asking him to repeat what he said.. or come right out and ask him what he meant. This is where it becomes annoying.. he ends up confirming my thought that the comment WAS sexual, but he plays it off like i'm such a ditz that i didn't get his comment. That i'm such an innocent little thirteen year-old.

Well you know what I say to that? If you want to flirt, flirt. There's nothing wrong with flirting as long as you recognize and respect the boundaries. You are a friend, nothing more. So don't cross any lines, and you won't have to feel like a dumbass when i get uncomfortable at your unwelcomed comments. And furthermore! don't call me honey, dear or babe. Only a few people can pull that off with me, and you definitely ain't one of them.

I'm sorry if i sound mean.. but i hate it when people get upset about something foolish they've done, but throw it back on you.. like YOU were the one that did something wrong. Ugh.

How do you tell a friend that you don't think of them as anything more than that? How do you get them to stop making sexual comments without upsetting them? blahh i suck.

And i have something else to say to all you men out there. MODESTY is attractive. Thinking that you're hot, even if you really are hot.. is well, unattractive. Of course i want my guy to be confident, but there's a difference in being confident and thinking you're God's gift to women. Get over yourself, buddy.

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